Welcome to My World!

Hey!!!

So let me formally introduce myself!  I am Mrs. B (aka. Busy B), the wonderful wife of Mr. B, mother of a highly-energetic 2-year old daughter, an aspiring, talented 10-year old daughter and 3 creative in their own special way daughters through marriage who are 14, 19 and 20.  Are you tired yet??  lol  So you can only imagine how exciting my home can be?

Well you may be wondering where life began for the "B's."  On December 31, 2008 Mr. B and I first laid eyes on one another for the 1st time at a New Years' Eve service at my best friend's (his cousin) church.  Truthfully, we didn't really, officially meet one another until the following day (New Year's Day), January 1, 2009.  Oddly, my bff and I had been friends since we were in 5th grade.  It's amazing how fate works; things won't happen until the "right" time!  Well, after our lovely courtship-romance, we were united in holy matrimony on April 14, 2012!  So here we are 3 years later.... :0)

And I must say it has been a fun ride!  Don't get me wrong, there are challenges in marriage, but to make it work you have to have two people that are dedicated to put the work in.  I think the best thing to remember is to always put God first!  He should always be the center of your heart, life, and focus.  If you focus on Him, everything else will fall in place.  We hear all of the time that love is a decision, a sacrifice, and should be God-like, but are you really listening??Because guess what?....All of those things are TRUE !  I'm sure all of my married friends would testify to the same.  Sometimes we think because we have been with someone for a long time that we "know" them, but we all change each and everyday.  Life experiences, responses, and changes will attribute to maturity, growth, mindset, etc...and this can be both positively and negatively.

I have seen it first hand through our experiences how things change. We're always ready for the yellow brick road to walk down together, but you really have to realize there's a bigger mission than you.  Bigger than your wants and needs. Understanding that being selfless is an action you must live daily is truly understanding the love of God. 

You know how you know there's something you should be doing in life, but you just can't put your finger on it??  Some things I have always loved to do was share who I am and share what I know!  And at this point in life I think I have something to share regarding life. But, if you don't mind me sharing there is more to come of my idea of what it's like being a wife, mother, and woman!  These are my life experiences I am sharing and I hope in some way, my little space can be appreciated by even one other person in the world.

Til next time, take care and God Bless!

Proverbs 18:22 
"He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD."